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Personal relationships. Oxford: Blackwell. Levinas, E. On thinking-of-the-other: Entre nous. New York: Columbia University Press. He asks that she accept a letter from him, but she refuses because she is obligated to get her father's permission. He demands that she "get it," which she does the following week. Florentino decides to give her a subdued note instead of the sixt y-page letter he had originally written in which he resolutely declares his love for her.
He is in agony as he awaits her reply, but is overjoyed when Fermina finally answers approvingly. In the two years that follow, Fermina and Florentino see one another only in passing, though they write love letters daily. Florentino proposes marriage to Fermina, and again her reply is favorable. Fermina is caught writing a love letter by the Mother Su perior at her academy and is expelled. Florentino hardly recognizes Fermina upon her return from the long journey, because, now seventeen, she has matured into a woman.
He sees her in the Arcade of the Scribes, and approaches her. When Fermina sees him, she is suddenly disgusted with him and w ith herself for ever having been foolish enough to love him. Coolly, she tells Florentino to "forget it. In the fifty-one years, nine months, and four days that follow, not once does Florentino have the chance to speak or see his beloved Fermina in private.
Initially, he vows to save his virginity for only Fermina, but after being seized by Rosalba aboard a ship to a faraway city, he turns to sex to ameliorate the pain he feels at having lo st Fermina. He returns home, intent upon once again making her his own. Instant access to over 22, book summaries. Try it for free. Also available in:. Editorial Rating 8. Leaders should focus on who they are, not just on what they do.
Love as complex concept has been studied from different points of view. One of the most interesting theories about love proposes that passionate love is based on arousal and intense emotion.
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